Friday, July 9, 2010

Love and Trust : Two face of same coin

Its time for me to write something about Love and Trust the topic in which people think I am good at. I am not sure how good I am but I will put down my views here.

To start with

manzilein bhi uski thi raasta bhi uska tha
ek main akela tha kaafila bhi uska tha
saath saath chalne ki soch bhi uski thi
phir raasta badalne ka faisla bhi uska tha
aaj kyon main akela hoon?
dil ye sawaal karta hai
log to uske they par kya… khuda bhi uska tha?

The above lines are from my favorite author(
Mr Ravinder Singh, Fame-I too had a love story
) from Whom I am most inspired to write.

It is said that if you can trust someone without your presence then only you should have dare to love someone. Without trust Love is like a ball on a pool table whereas even the ball is not sure after a hit where it will land. Sometimes a small confusion or misunderstanding can lead you to a situation which you had never dream t off.

Love is like a flowing water where a lill obstacle can turn its way can change its flowing direction. Its a very delicate thread which can break anytime.

Once a breakup happens its very difficult for a time machine also to go into you past and improve the relationship issue.

This story is about one of my friend who lost his relationship due to some unavoidable demands from girls parent.

Nitin(Nit): Calling Sunayana: Hey Baby where r u?
Sunayana(Sun): Just got up dear.

Nit: Did I come in your dream.
Sun: Ya.

Nit: What I said in you dream?
Sun: You had no words to speak. you kept your mouth shut.

Nit: me and mouth shut. You are lying !!!
Sun: I also saw one more person in my dream

Nit: He or she?
Sun: He

Nit: Who the hell was he and what he was doing their in you dreams.
Sun: stupid, I saw my dad scolding you in my dream.

Nit:OH!!! he always does that.
Sun: You are never serious.

Nit: What's the plan today?
Sun: Like
Nit:Like
Sun: As of now nothing. Expecting few relatives in afternoon.
Nit: You never have time for me
Sun: Don't start argument again.

Nit: Than: Ended the call


Time had brought the large difference between us. I still remember those days when we had for the first time in college where Sun was surrounded by Seniors as part of ragging activities and i still remember my first date with her where she asked me by which i will like to call her. Those small lill things had so much to do in my life.

We went on a first bike ride to Taj from Gurgaon. Where she proposed and kissed me for the first time and the day when I gave her best gift the White dress which she has not told it to her parents yet. I love her wearing that White dress in which she looked like an Angel.

It was the day of 14th Feb 2008 when she introduced me to her family and that was the last day, we were happy in our relationship. Parents force, Money, studies everything started to become as an obstacle and the trust started to decrease in our relationship.

One day when Sun found my mobile as busy for almost 2 and half hours and thought that I am running from her. I tried to convinced her thousand of times that it was a job call for interview but she didn't believed me.

One day I left Gurgaon for a job which made her feel like that I left Gurgaon to get rid of her. That day was the last day I sopke to her. I tried calling her but no response.

Guyz and Galz just a word- If you wanna be loved, please have trust on you part.